WHAT HUSBANDS WANT WIVES TO DO DURING SEX

The previous article dealt with my findings on what wives want husbands to do during sex.

This article is about what husbands want wives to do during sex. A significant difference is in the number of issues raised by each side; while I recorded up to eight things wives want from the husbands, I recorded only four areas of concern for the husbands.

She should Initiate Sex: This is a major concern for most of the men interviewed. One of them told me that when she initiates, it has a special arousal effect on him. This may not be general for all husbands; however, most men who have conquered selfishness in their sexual relationship with their wives, desire to see them initiate sex.

Body Movement: The men are not comfortable with the wives lying still during sex, without making corresponding moves to the one the man makes.

If they are on the missionary style, the man wants the wife to move their body in response to the penetration movements the man makes. Besides this, husbands who responded also want the wives to feel free and caress or touch sensitive parts of the man’s body during sex. One says it increases arousal.

Adapt to changing positions: Another area of concern mentioned while talking with the men individually is that wives should get used to changing positions. While the men admit that their wives do not generally refuse changing positions, they say the women are surprised when they switch to certain positions or change often.

She should say how she wants it: While some wives want husbands to ask them how they want it; some husbands want their wives to say exactly how they want it, when they ask. The men say that it helps when the women respond in specific manner.