In order to maintain a healthy sex life in your marriage, the
following tips will help your approach.
1. Focus on lovemaking; not just
having sex. Lovemaking begins from morning through the day, before the act
itself.
2. Husband; woo your wife
emotionally before the time, and then she would be available for the act when
the time comes.
3. Ensure there are no pending
misgivings; thinking about unresolved issues may result in refusal.
4. Don’t treat sex as a right that
belongs to you alone. Your spouse also needs it.
5. Your wife wants to hear your
voice before the act; don’t get on the act without letting her know how much
she means to you; How much her body suits you, and how much you desire to have
her.
6. Avoid walking up to her and
saying, ‘I want to have sex with you’. That could put her off. Be creative
about it.
7. Your husband wants to see your
body; don’t complain that he does not touch you if you always look unkept.
8. Find out what he wants to see
on your body and wear it.
10.
Don’t be dogmatic about the timing, the style and the location. Be
flexible and spontaneous.
11.
Be willing to touch and be touched as you deem fit; there should
be no sacred zone for your spouse
12.
Talking, humming, screaming during sex may be pleasing to your
spouse. Don’t just keep quiet while the act is on, your tone helps your spouse
know how you feel.
13.
If the fire is
completely down, plan an outing and find time to relax alone to revitalise
yourselves and rekindle the fire.
Always
remember that he or she is your spouse; not a stranger. She is there for you;
he is there for you. Respect his or her person; focus on pleasing him or her.
I believe that this edition has been a blessing to someone. Your
comments are appreciated.
Talks
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